Admit it: you are a self development, Law of Attraction, visualization, meditation, EFT, Notes from the Universe, Feng Shui junkie!!!
Instead of needles in your arms, you’ve got affirmations posted all over your house and a stack of books next to your bed you haven’t even read past the first chapter!
Holy Cowabunga!
Fess up! You are always reading, listening to audio programs and attending seminars, looking for another technique, tool or process that will help you manifest your desires.
The difficult thing about self development is knowing when to quit. After you read this blog and buy my audio program, you can quit! (Just kidding!)
You have no doubt manifested many awesome things into your life.
You do have the Midas touch!
BUUUUUUUTTTTTTTTTTTTT!
You still don’t have some elusive things that you desire!
No matter how many techniques, tools and processes you try, you are still not any closer to manifesting certain things!!! Damn it!
WHY is that?
The truth: Who ARE you to have all your dreams come true? Face it, you’re not worthy! You don’t deserve it; remember in second grade when you stole that lunch?
You’ve got bad karma!
WRONG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
None of the above is true unless of course you believe it to be.
Here’s the inside scoop behind every technique, tool and process (TTP):
Every time you use a TTP to get rid of something and you’re doing it out of lack and frustration, you are holding on to that negative vibration.
However, every time you do a technique or process to manifest something and you’re having fun and feeling good, you’re attracting it to you.
The key distinction here is to know whether you’re using any TTP out of lack of life or love of life.
If you’re doing it out of lack, that’s what you’ll attract!
If you’re doing it out of love, then it’s yours like a hand in glove.
Every technique, tool and process you do, do it for fun and to feel good now! Don’t do it to get rid of anything or even to frantically manifest anything! Huh?
The REAL reason you want to do affirmations, visualization, meditation, EFT or NLP is because it instantly changes how you feel right now!!!!!
How you feel is how you vibrate, and how you vibrate is how you’re attracting everything into your life!
STORY: Recently I manifested a beautiful women, and now we’re in a relationship! Well, she doesn’t know it yet, but she will soon find out! (Just kidding!) We both only want to see each other! I am the chosen one! Manifestations never cease.
I used every technique, tool and process. Okay, not every one, mainly visualization, journaling and video surveillance. Why did I do these processes…? Because it was fun and made me feel good!
I did NOT do it first and foremost to get the girl and be in a relationship, but rather to create the feeling I was after! To create the feeling of her being in my life right now!!!!
I did it from a place of LOVE not lack. I did it because it was fun to visualize her; it was fun to journal about spending time with her!
You have heard it said: Have your desire, and then let go of the outcome!
YES!!! Having the desire creates the feeling, so stay focused on the feeling and the universe will deliver something even better than you have imagined!
If you want to lose weight, do every process NOT to get rid of the weight but to feel good now! Do it to appreciate where you are right now and what you can become. Do it from a place of LOVE, not lack.
If you want more money, do every process NOT to have more money but to feel good about money! Do it to change the way you feel about making money! Do it from a place of LOVE, not lack.
Sometimes the word LOVE can screw you up! If so, use the word FUN!!! Do it for FUN!
The bottom line is that every technique, tool and process MUST be done from a place of love, not lack. Yes, do it because you want it, but not because you lack it.
Behind your every dream is the desire to feel good!
Therefore using techniques, tools and processes MUST be done to feel good and have fun — not to get rid of something or to try intensely to make something happen.
When you’re feeling good and having fun,
Then everything you want can come!!!
Now go have FUN with your techniques, tools and processes!
WooHoo!
December 16, 2008 at 10:46 am |
Hi Andy
Thank you for this perfect message this morning – perfect timing and bang on!
Thank you! x
December 16, 2008 at 1:07 pm |
Thanks Andy. That is just what I needed this morning. We all can’t be reminded enough!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! ;-))
December 16, 2008 at 2:13 pm |
Wow. Just discovered your blog. You’re so right about positive affirmation junkies. I’m one. Fix me, Dr. Andy. I would be a perfect test case. Then I can be the subject of your next blog/speech/book. Let’s do it.
I’m a freelance writer, actually forced into my self-employment status when I was laid off several months ago. I want my books/TV show to sell now, so I can stop eating cat food.
Got suggestions?
Oh, yeah, you just gave me some good ones. Off to practice your WHAT &WHY techniques…and then visualize with FUN. “I love cat food. It tastes like chicken. And it’s so much fun to enjoy at a candlelight dinner.” (Candles because they’ve shut off my electricity. Kidding.)
There. Am I on the right track?
December 17, 2008 at 12:24 am |
Jeanne, I read your comment a thought came to mind…maybe you could look at your success as if it’s already happened, (fade to you on tv) and you’re sitting on a talk show and you’re telling Letterman the story of your rise to fame. That you had reached bottom, but then found Andy Dooley’s blog and that gave you a spark of hope…then like a phoenix out of the ashes or Rocky (the orginal) you found your self manifesting just the right things at just the right time, it kept getting easier and easier, and better and better, and although you can’t stay for the next segment on his show (you’re jetting off in your private plane to an undisclosed but fabulous location) you want him and others to know that you look fondly on your time of struggle and appreciate the contrast for it helped you fine tune your dreams into a reality…and what a great reality it is!
December 17, 2008 at 8:08 pm |
Hi Andy,
I love your lighthearted take on everything. I enjoy watching your videos and reading your words, it helps me to “ease the grip”.
Regards,
Robert
February 28, 2009 at 5:49 pm |
I love your site!
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April 14, 2009 at 5:11 pm |
I love this Andy. You know how to make everything fun. Whenever I think of you I will have lots and lots of FUN.
April 14, 2009 at 5:54 pm |
let the good times roll! I am Mr. FUN!!!